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Hello and welcome to my Blog! This is my first time with a blog and I would like to thank my Web Master Tony for setting it up for me. He is fellow Dominant.

In here you will find my ranDomme thoughts, ideas, rants and whatever I feel like posting.

Welcome to Mistress Katie’s Mind

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My name is Mistress Katie and it is how I demand to be addressed from this moment on when contacting me. I am an Alpha Female and a Born Dominant. I also have the balance of a strict cruel Mistress that will take you into the depths of your submissive self. I must state now that I do not have a submissive bone in My body and will not switch roles so don’t even bother asking. My presence alone will confirm this. I am intelligent, clever, and skilled in the disciplinary arts which I find is an enjoyable way of earning my living. I can be wickedly sadistic and very cruel if and when I choose to be. I address each person with the appreciation for his own unique gifts and needs and I never lose sight or my respect for those who come to me and dare to share such a special, private part of their secret fantasy. It is unhealthy to deny your inner desires, so fully explore your secret self, and have FUN through BDSM play.
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I have been asked several times now what I mean by Draconian measures. The answer is really quite simple…small offenses have very heavy punishments…!!!

Is there any other way???

If a slave has displeased Me, then I am disappointed. My slave will suffer for Me, possibly even with draconian measures in order to please Me again….!!!

Now you know…!!!

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Thanks Tony…for everything…!!!!

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Hey Katie,
Welcome to blogging… and you are welcome lol…
Have fun
Tony

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Being an Alpha Female at times has its downfall. I sometimes have others hate Me because I am who I am and am very comfortable in My own skin.
I have a message to those of you who feel that way…

Don’t hate Me because I am beautiful…
Don’t hate because I am a strong Dominant woman…
Don’t hate Me because I know what I want and I know how to get what I want…
Hate Me because you can never be like Me…!!!

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Entering into the world of an Apha Mistress…an Alpha Female…which is My world…is something you must earn not something that is handed to you. you will prove yourself and I will decide if you can be a part of My life!

In My world I am an Alfa Mistress and am the ruler of all. I am not just a Domme, a Female Supremacist, a strong, confident, dominate Women, I am EVERYTHING to My submissives and slaves! I am the air that they breath, the ground that they walk on, the blood pumping through their veins, I am their LIFE!
I the Alpha am the epitome of all living things in My world. I am the ultimate Female/being and will be pampered, spoiled, taken care of, and should NEVER need to worry about a thing as My minions, slaves, submissives, will do My bidding for Me.
I should never have to lift a finger and always have My subjects there to take care of My every need. I truly believe that either your born with the Alpha gene or your not. It is not something that can be learned or acquired. When having the Alpha gene I have no choice but to be put on a pedestal and be worshiped for the Alpha that I am by My subjects.

All of My life I have known this about Myself, I have known there is just something extra special about Me and not until the last 26 years or so did I figure out exactly what that was…and now I know…!!!
Yes I can be very bossy , totally demanding, and cruel at times for My own amusement and entertainment. My birthright as an Alpha gives Me the right to be as I choose with My subjects…I will NEVER make excuses or apologize for that, However, I will apologize for something if I am wrong. My little bois and gurls of My world will bow down and do as they are told…when they are told…with a smile on their face no matter what kind of pain or discomfort they are in…!!!

My Rules are as follows:

1) you will have respect for Me, My lifestyle, and those around Me at all times

2) you will know your place and will worship Me as you should no matter where you are unless I state otherwise.

3)Always remember that you are Mistress Katie’s property and that you must do anything and everything that I tell you to do. you will never lie to Me or hold back any information that I should know, no matter how minuet or minor you believe it to be or you will face severe draconian punishment!

4) you will always address Me as Mistress Katie no matter what your question or the subject matter

5) you will understand that ‘true service’ is not about your needs; it is about making all My dreams come true!

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I have received many responses and comments about My slave hp. I am very pleased with these responses and welcome any comments that you may have. Because I am searching (still) for a 24/7/365 slave, this woman contacted Me one day for that purpose. In its conversation with Me, it told Me that it was a bitch for breaking and that it had yet to find a Mistress that could break it…which seemed like a challenge (don’t you think?) Since I was up for that challenge at the time, I could see that it was very disobedient, stubborn, and most definitely had been living free for much to long. it had been previously owned and was not properly trained, I could also see that I had My work cut out for Me.
hp is hardly a puppet and is not very submissive at all…well to Me it is, but it certainly is not to others..even to this day which is fine by Me. it should not have dared Me the way that it did, because I made it My passion to break this bitch…Trust Me, it is broken and is now the property of Mistress Katie.
My beast has been owned for nearly a year and a half now and is one of My most prized possessions. it is a very dedicated loyal slave that strives to be the best it can be for Me and will do what ever it takes as long as it is legal to do so in the eyes of society in the world that W/we live in.
I use draconian measures to punish it in order to dehumanized it into the beast that I desire…it is endeared to Me and is My property…My chattel to do with as I please even though My beast knows that I am a safe, sane, consensual Mistress that would never put it in jeopardy or in harms way.
I use Mistress Nicole or Master Joe who are in the vicinity of My beast to punish it for Me at times when I feel that it deserves to feel My strong hand. Because of the distance between My beast and I this is the avenue that I have decided to take.
It pleases Me to find that My beast is definitely an inspiration to other submissives and slaves around the world which is very pleasing to Me…its Owner…and makes Me proud…! For some reason it does not understand that it is a great teacher and its journal is a great learning tool for others that strive to be owned by Me or a Mistress like Me. submissives and slaves everywhere are very fortunate to look into the mind of a slave and its bond with its Mistress…!!! By all means…enjoy reading hp’s journal and thoughts.

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I have a foot slave in My house…it is in My bathroom right now stripped of its clothing and in a cb6000 chastity device. he is cleaning My toilet, My bathtub, My entire bathroom is a matter of fact…I am certain that it will be gleaming…!!!

This rodent will worship his Mistress’s feet today and paint My toenails since he gave Me such of a nice pedicure yesterday while he slithered under My feet on the floor…!!!

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some slaves are like slinkies…they don’t really have a purpose…However…they still bring a smile to My face when I push them down the stairs…*evil grin*…..!!!

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This is something that I found on collarme written by a submissive. I found it was worth putting onto My blog. The only thing that I think that he neglected to mention as far as I am concerned is that once a submissive or slave is permitted into My world…he has to continue to keep Me interested in him…I hope that you enjoy it…

What can a sub have to offer a dominant woman?  (a response)Here’s some advice from someone who’s been around the block a few times (translation: my mommy still won’t let me cross the street).

You first of all have to figure out what it is you have to offer. What separates you from the crowd? This stumps a lot of submissives, but I’ll let you in on a few secrets that don’t work, then we’ll go into some things that might work. Keep in mind that what I state here may be helpful to some, but you should never by lying about your abilities in hopes of achieving something because you’ll ALWAYS be found out, and you’ll never get a second chance.

What doesn’t work:
1. Anatomy. Pictures of, descriptions of, fingerpaints about, Van Gogh-styled carvings of exact representations of genitalia should be the first thing you NEVER consider one of your strong points. If you’re writing to a dominant woman, she already has enough of these types of inquiries from guys that she’s going to go through the roof with anger if you send her another.

2. Don’t tell her your a dom who has suddenly decided to offer her the unique opportunity of dominating someone who is not a submissive. Unless she knows you are already and has harbored a secret desire to dominate you, because she knows you’re a dominant she wants to break down, it’s never going to work.

3. Lying. One lie and you’re pretty much gone. You’ll rarely get a second chance.

4. Passive-aggressive behavior. No one likes this. I’ve been there myself in the past. Took years to get rid of it.

5. Taking yourself way too seriously. In MOST cases (not all), you really need a sense of humor about things. I was once cleaning a bathroom for a dominant woman I was really trying to win favor with, and I didn’t know the first thing about the word “dilution”, so I poured half the bottle on the floor and created the stickiest situation a submissive can ever be in. She was in the middle of doing a very long session and had left me alone. So, for four hours, I kept trying to figure out how to fix this mess I made. When she came out, and I completely expected her to yell at me and throw me out, she asked what happened, I told her, and she started laughing (in a good way). Surprisingly, I did, too, because for four hours I was convinced this was going to be the worst encounter ever, because I really liked her. Everything turned out okay. Sure, I had to still make it right, but at least she told me how to do it (fortunately, I’m a bit smarter about such things today than I was back then).

6. Playing games to get what you really want. Way too many do this. Don’t. Be honest. Tell her what you’re seeking. If it’s what she thinks is something that might interest her, it will work out. Sometimes, she’ll not be all that interested but now that she knows, she might one day use it as some kind of leverage with you or way of rewarding you, or something to keep from you forever because she’s mean and vicious and…and…oh sorry, was getting kind of excited there.

What you should do (what you really asked):
1. Assess yourself. What do you know how to do? Are you great with computers? Can you put them together blindfolded (don’t tell her that because she just might have you do it that way)? Are you great at massage? Have you been trained to do something she might find useful, like research or legal issues? Can you cook? Do you detail cars? Do you fix cars? Everyone has things he or she excels at. Find those, and you have something she wants. Cunnilingus is NOT the kind of skill you want to advertise. Nor is full body worship or sex.

2. Use common sense. If you were her, what would you want? Read what she writes. Does she complain because she can’t find a good cup of coffee? Find her a good cup of coffee. Or be able to make one.

3. Remember that she’s a real person. Too many submissives fail here. Miserably. They treat her as a goddess or some untouchable persona, and while she may warrant such admiration and respect, keep in mind that she’s also a real person. Should you ever interest such a woman, remember that she’s probably a lot more comfortable in her fuzzy slippers than she is in high heeled boots and full dominant regalia. Some guys can’t get beyond that, or they pretend to but really are just fetishist in nature.

4. Figure out what you actually want from her and see if that somehow coincides with her desires. I’ll be honest with you. I rarely pursue anyone, mainly because I spend a great deal of time finding everything out about her I can, and then I try to see how I would best fit into her life. If I don’t see a fit, I generally don’t make contact. I realize that I don’t want to be there if I’m not going to be useful, wanted and needed.

5. Learn as much about her as possible. That at least shows you that you’re really interested in her and not in just some generic dominant woman. This can backfire on you, however, as I discovered when I really went out and discovered everything I could about a woman I was interested in some years ago. I found out what she was studying and read all of her interviews about what she was seeking. I did this to determine whether or not I was right for her, and I came away from that research convinced that I was. During our first encounter, I sort of freaked her out, probably leaving her thinking I was some kind of stalker. So be careful about how you do it. Know her well enough to find out if you are compatible, but don’t go overboard enough to scare the crap out of her. It didn’t get that bad in the example I used; but I certainly realized it could have.

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Being a Dominant Mistress is a state of mind. It is not a sex act, it is not a game, and it is not a role. It is a state of being.
First and foremost, I am always a Lady. There is no excuse for being impolite or rude to others. Save this for the submissive that needs and requires this of Me.
Second, I must always be in control. Drugs, even alcohol, are mind and body controlling agents. They affect relationships and most importantly can affect a scene, therefore taking away the control that I MUST have.
Third, I am always honest. To lie is to show that I cannot be trusted and a submissive must be able to trust and respect Me. I am honest with My submissive/slave about My level of experience, and I will gain more experience with him, totally enjoying the learning process. I tell a submissive up-front that I do not wish a monogamous relationship. Most submissives understand and even expect this of Me. I may not get “that” submissive but I will not lose his respect either.
Fourth, I accept responsibility for all of My actions. Everyone makes mistakes. I will do what is needed to make amends, and correct it. I will accept and admit the fact that I messed up. To seek an excuse for something going wrong or hurting someone would cause you to lose respect for Me.
Fifth, I expect respect but I do not demand it. I do not demands strangers to call Me Mistress, respect is earned over time. Demanding that a submissive/slave call Me Mistress means nothing and is only a word that when not earned is meaningless which makes Me appear to others as a petty childish fool. Those that know Me and respect Me will call Me Mistress when I have earned it, not before. When addressing other Dominants. I am not Their Mistress, I am their equal. I would never DEMAND them too ever call Me Mistress. I call them by their first name as do they.
Sixth, I know and understand the differences between needs, desires and wants. A submissive may want a 24/7 relationship with an understanding Mistress, desire a short relationship with a crude rude person, or need to session with an understanding yet cruel Mistress.

My duty as a Mistress is to control My emotions. To punish a submissive in anger or to lash out to anyone is abusive.
It is My duty as a Mistress to remember that submission is a gift. To misuse this gift is abusive. When the submissive is not free to take back what he has said by proving it to Me or voice his opinion to Me, the gift is no longer a gift.
It is My duty to watch over and protect all submissives/slaves. This does not mean to protect them from finding another Mistress and to keep him for Myself.
It is My duty to take only a submissive that will match/compliment Me. A submissive that is not into whips should not belong to Me as a 24/7/365 because I love to whip submissives.
It is My Duty to take only the amount of submissives that I can properly handle, control, love, comfort and care for. I would never keep a submissive hanging, giving him false hopes. I would instead free and release the submissive so he can get along with finding the right Mistress to suit his wants, needs, and desires.
It is My duty to watch and monitor any scene carefully and to ensure the submissive is not being harmed either physically, mentally, or emotionally and to do after scene care including after scene conversations. At any time the slightest thing can go wrong and the scene is ruined for the submissive and pleasure becomes actual pain.
It is My duty to ensure the submissive is emotionally stable after a scene . During a scene the submissive is filled with hormones and endorphins. Afterwards the body reduces them and may cause severe depression to the extent of being suicidal. The submissive must be made to understand the depression and or emotional release is normal and expected. Normal emotions will return in hours to a day. Anything longer is a sign of emotional instability in the submissive and must be corrected before doing another scene. I am a Mistress, and yet, I can also experience this depression after a high from the scene. Each reacts differently some stay high for weeks and when they come down, they seek the scene again to regain the high. This also can lead to problems such as longer, more intense and dangerous scenes, with unknown Dominants.
It is My duty to know and understand what the needs, desires and wants of a submissive are. Failure to do so may harm the submissive emotionally and mentally.
It is My responsibility if I can, to insure that an un-owned submissive/slave that comes under My Dominance is guided to a Dominant Mistress/Master that is suited to that submissive’s wants, needs and desires.
It is My responsibility to insure that the submissive knows what being abusive is. To insure this is to insure the submissive knows when to call it quits, use a safe word, or to walk/run away from an abusive Dominant.
It is My responsibility to ensure the submissive knows what its rights are. It is My responsibility to teach the submissive information about the Lifestyle. The best method is to teach the submissive how to acquire this information and where he can get it. An ignorant submissive can be an embarrassment to a Mistress.
It is My responsibility to insure the submissive grows and develops under My ownership, in both the lifestyle and vanilla life (i.e., job and family). Being submissive only means being a “doormat” when the submissive has made it clear that it is what he is looking for.

For Me to allow a submissive to be actually harmed in ANY way is dishonorable.
For Me to allow a submissive’s rights to be violated is dishonorable.
For Me to play with and discard a submissive just for My amusement is dishonorable (exception is a submissive/client that has declared this is the treatment that he needs).
Unless the submissive has declared himself to be un-owned, another Dominants interference in a relationship is dishonorable.
To chase after or scene with Another’s submissive without the other Dominants permission and full knowledge is dishonorable.

No Mistress, Master, or Dominant can be expected to live up to the above 100% of the time, however, others will respect Me for trying and the harder I try, the more respect that they will have for Me and My submissive/slave

    After many requests from clients, submissives, slaves, etc. about what it would be like to live under My rule. I thought it would be nice to give him a taste becoming My Property, a taste of being owned by Me as chattel. I thought…that would be nice for a local submissive/slave, but what about those who are far away…??? he could be local, somewhere in Canada, in the United States, or even abroad…!!! he is looking for a vacation, but not a vanilla vacation; a BDSM Vacation…!!!

Then I thought this property would not really get to know what it is like if he is on vacation staying in a luxury hotel, and trying to serve Me as a lowly slave should. It would not have the full effect that I would desire and would be more like role play. How could I make it more genuine?

I know…!!! I would hold him captive in My basement at My disposal, for My amusement, taking total control of him. I could really get into his head; into his slave heart. This is where I can use him, abuse him, take him into subspace and not leave, for he is there with Me…serving Me…suffering for Me…Yes…That is what I desire.

I would deny him what he desires and only permit him what I feel that he deserves…has earned…Mmmm…I like that thought…!!! I can degrade and humiliate him in the most delicious ways, stripping him of every stitch of clothing; and totally at My mercy.
I may Poke and prod him, inspecting him like a 1750’s slave that just came off of a slave ship. Should I buy him, work him to the bone, satisfy Myself with his body? what shall I do with him? I can train him to be exactly what I want. A human toilet, an adult baby, ohhh…the fun I can have with this fine specimen.

I will build the dungeon that I desire, or shall he…yes…he will do if for Me, because he can‘t help himself…he wants to please Me…after all he is a slave…!!! I desire his skills no matter what they are, carpentry, electrical, leather work, he has something that I want…and I will find it…and use his talents while I enslave him on his BDSM Vacation.

he will be honored to do My bidding while on his BDSM Vacation, knowing full well that I will suddenly take him off guard, maybe even sadistically, sensually, or degrade him right there, queening him. his body is mine do with as I please, and trust Me I will do as I desire. And he will love it because he is a slave and knows that he has no choice but the limits I grant him…. He will obey…!!!

I have a regular submissive male that expressed his fear and yet interest of forced bi one day during a session. This submissive is a business man that stays at a hotel in the city from time to time and loves a Domination and submission encounter. he called Me and left a message to say that he was in the city and eager to serve Me, where he was staying and the room number. I called him back at his hotel and told him that I would be by shortly to put him in his place and make sure that he does not forget that he is a lowly male and must be disciplined just for that among other things. Little did he know that I had also made special arrangements for him as well. I arrived at his room and as usual he opened the door naked, and on his knees. I entered the room and kicked him to the ground for looking at Me…he thanked Me of course. I dragged him by the hair into the middle of the room and bound his hands behind his back. I then proceeded to whip him and do cock and ball torture on him until he squealed like the pig that he is. I then took him and threw him on the bed binding his arms, legs, and especially his head on the bed with his feet on the pillows and his head at the foot of the bed. I then blind folded him, sat on his face, and did some breath play while I enjoyed Myself immensely between his screams and sucking for air (evil grin). Right on time a male slave entered the room very quietly as I had previously instructed him to. While I did breath play with the submissive on the bed I ordered the slave to strip and he was definitely eager to please. I then got off of the submissives face, told him to keep his blind fold on, and open his mouth wide for My strapon. If he did well I would allow him to catch his breath, The slave then eagerly but quietly proceeded to the foot of the bed immediately inserted his erect penis into the submissives mouth. I immediately ordered the submissive to suck and lick My strap on dildo…and he eagerly did just that, mouthing in between sucks how close he thought that My dildo was to the real thing. Mmmmmmm!!!! he sucked that penis with a hunger like there was no tomorrow enjoying and savoring ever inch of it. It wasn’t until the slave accidentally groaned with pleasure that the submissive jolted to reality realizing that he indeed was sucking a real cock that had a real male attached to it. he suddenly shuddered and tried to stop but My slave had his orders and eagerly obeyed them. I took control of the submissive with My voice and whip, ordering him to continue sucking the slaves cock and he did…whimpering with each sucking stroke. However, in no time flat he was right back into it hungrily enjoying every inch of it. I untied the submissives legs, raised each leg up and spread them apart high above and bound them to each side of the slave between his under arms to ensure that if the submissive fought the cock in his mouth or tried to pull back his legs, he would only cause the slave to penetrate his mouth deeper causing the slave to deep throat him. I then took the liberty of getting into position and raping his exposed and spread eagle ass with My strap on giving the slave a birds eye view of the rape. The submissive whimpered and then suddenly began to suck the slaves cock so well while I raped his ass that My slave accidentally released without My permission due to the submissives eager mouth and the excellent view below. The slave was of course punished for his unauthorized release…but that …is another story.

I just Dominated a male submissive that contacted Me through My website and asked me if I would dominate him. At first I was not interested in him, but he kept on contacting me and asking allot of questions about the lifestyle. He showed genuine interest and seemed very submissive. After chatting for a while I told him that the only way that I would dominate him is if he totally submitted to me, no questions asked. I explained that I have zero tolerance for disobedience and would drop him immediately if he showed even one iota of resistance. He assured me that he would totally comply and I agreed to meet with him. We decided to meet at a middle upper class restaurant at noon when I know it would be the busiest. I asked him what he would be wearing He replied a Grey business suit. I informed him that he would also be wearing a thong and pantyhose under his suit and in his pocket would be condoms and a butt plug, and he eagerly agreed. As soon as I arrived I new it was him from his description. He had described himself very well. He walked right up to me and said ma’am? I nodded and he exhaled a deep breath. The host seated us at a booth as I had requested. Once seated I saw that he was very nervous. He kept looking around the restaurant with this guilty worried look on his face like he had his hand caught the cookie jar. I told him that he seemed to have more interest in the other diners and decor. I told him that since I had agreed to grace him with my presence I expected his undivided attention or I would leave at once. He quickly got over what ever it was that was on his mind and he apologized profusely. I could see that he was still very nervous, yet he still seemed very exited to be there with me. I know his type so I told him to relax and that only he and I know why we are here. Every one else was there for their own purpose. He took a deep breath again, exhaled, looked directly into my eyes, smiled, and said Yes Mistress.The waitress came to take our order. I told her that we were not ready to order and that we would get her attention when we were ready. I asked him if he was wearing the intimate apparel as I requested. He nodded yes. I said with a wry grin on my face Excellent! Show them to me! I noticed his Adams apple in his throat as he swallowed nervously. He asked where I would like him to show them to me and I said right here! His eyes widened and he let out a little gasp. I told him to knock his fork off of the table, lean over to pick it up, and use his thumb to pull away his pants from his waist to expose the undies. He nodded and complied. I smiled. I then asked him if he brought the butt plug as I requested. He said he had, and I had him show it to me. He discretely showed me and I told him to go into the mens room insert it, and return to the table with it up his ass. He had a shocked look on is face, took a deep breath, looked into my eyes. I again saw his Adams apple doing a dance in his throat as he swallowed nervously and complied. He left the table and returned a short while later. I had watched him walk to the mens room, but by watching him walk back to the table I knew that he had obeyed me. I smiled and once he sat down again I asked him to squirm a bit and make sure the butt plug was in there real good. He let out a slight moan. I could tell by his eyes and facial expressions that this was no form of discipline I would be giving him in the future, but a reward…!!! I asked him if he had remembered the condoms, and he replied in a low husky seductive voice “Yes Mistress” I said good and told him to undo his pants and take out his penis under the table and start stroking it. His eyes opened wide, and his mouth dropped open. His Adams apple did quite the dance and he turned pale. He hesitated for just a second and took a quick glance around the room, then proceeded to begin masturbating under the table in this busy restaurant. I was getting total satisfaction degrading and humiliating him in public and told him not to stop no matter what unless I told him to. He nodded and carried on. We sat and chatted while he masturbated. I could see that he was extremely aroused and asked him to open a condom and put it on his erect throbbing penis and he did. I proceeded to call the waitress and order two salads, one with dressing, and one without. The whole time he never stopped masturbating. I could see that he was getting close to cumming, but I told him he needed permission first before he came. I had him grind his ass into the butt plug and stroke his cock harder and faster. I could see he was in ecstasy. He begged me to allow him to cum and I said no, not yet. He closed his eyes and moaned. The waitress brought us our salads smiled and left. I smiled at him and told him to cum at once…he ground his ass so hard into that plug, and stroked so fast and hard that he forgot where he was. He blew his load into the condom and actually looked to other diners as if he had dropped his coffee or something hot into his lap. He had such of a satisfied look on his face. I instructed him to empty the contents of the condom onto his salad as that was his dressing. He eagerly complied. I sat with great satisfaction as he gobbled down his salad and savored the dressing. I asked him how he felt being dominated and degraded in public and he replied that he had never in his life experienced something so erotic.

This is Mistress Katie’s female slave hp that Mistress Katie is long distance training until it is able to relocate to Her. Mistress says that She named it hp because it is a piece of meat and hp sauce goes great with a piece of meat. Mistress Katie utilizes another Mistress (Mistress Nicole) to do Her bidding and be Her hands because She is so far away.

There is no more I or ever i…now just simply it. it is also slowly becoming less human and more of a beast as Mistress Katie slowly dehumanizes it. it is totally owned and controlled by Mistress Katie, all it needs is to hear Mistress Katie’s voice and it melts lowering its head. Right now it is under intense training as it has not been pleasing to its Mistress.

In time it will learn and become a prized possession of its Mistress

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