Do you desire to kneel before Me and worship Me little one…
I receive many questions about micromanagement from both male and female submissives and slaves alike. Many seem to ask Me what I like about micromanagement, what I would expect from them, and what I will or will not tolerate! Perhaps this will clarify a few things in order to assist you in finding the answers that you are looking for if you desire a place in My world.
As you may already have figured out, slave training means different things to Owners, submissives, and slaves alike. I Myself prefer to micromanage My slave which gives Me great pleasure indeed to say the least. When I have the total control that I need, want, and desire; then that is when I am at My most happiest and content.
There really is no hard and fast rules for slave training in the real world unless you are looking for fantasy instead of reality. If you are looking for fantasy, then I am definitely not looking for you! Having said that, micromanagement is pretty much an individual thing depending on your level of submission as well as your experience in the lifestyle.
There are a few things that you MUST learn if you are going to serve Me. Keep in mind that only a small part of this involves actually learning WHAT I expect you to do, and WHEN I expect you to do it. Most of your training will involve learning how to deal with these feelings that you are having deep down inside of you as well as the transformation that is taking place within you. What you must first learn, is to re-wire or re-program your brain to the knowledge that you exist for the purpose of making Me happy…period…!!!
This is part of what differentiates a submissive from a slave. What I mean by that statement is that a submissive DOES what I want; while a slave BECOMES what I want; its as simple as that! So I’ll break it down for you since this is an on-going process that is likely to occupy you as a slave or submissive for your entire life.
Keep in mind that I will expect you to become very observant as to what I like and don’t like; things I will tolerate or won’t tolerate, etc. This goes way beyond what I like in My coffee or what position I want you to assume when either I approach you or you approach Me. I don’t want a mindless useless puppet. I actually prefer you at times to suggest that it would be nice to go out for brunch on a Saturday or Sunday morning or what movie it would be nice to enjoy in the evening. This does not necessarily mean that I will permit or accept your suggestion. It only means that I MAY welcome your idea or I will tell you that W/we are going to be doing something completely different instead.
In a nut shell, this means that I will totally take control of every aspect of your life from when you sleep, what you eat, what you watch, right to learning to accept the idea of having your paycheck sent directly to the bank without you even knowing how much it was worth. All of this takes trust! Trust knowing that I will make good sound decisions for you, take care of all the bills, safely; sanely; consensually enslave you ensuring that you are all that you can be to meet the potential slave that I know you are capable becoming!
In turn, I too must learn to trust you in that your servitude is real and that you are indeed what I need and deserve. I do not want a wannabe slave that hopes to live out a fantasy! If W/we click then that is certainly all the better! Personally, I do not care what you look like, don’t care about your age, financial status, etc. What I do care about is how well you will serve Me and how seriously you will take your enslavement! Like I have said before, I am much more interested in an obedient slave than I am a good looking disobedient one! you Must learn to accept that I will always be in control and therefore you will learn to watch the TV shows of My choice without complaining, even if you think they are silly or boring. you will learn to love the foods that I love, or anything else that I desire you to be trained in.
Just because you are a slave does not mean that you are not an intelligent person! I know that you have a brain, so therefore I want you to use it! I will not spoon feed you everything that I feel you should be doing for Me. If I did indeed want that then I would have a four legged pet instead of a two legged one…!!!
I will expect you to be creative, and to take some initiative to figure out for yourselves what you like and don’t like. And, believe me, If I don’t like something…I certainly will let you know…
If you were Mine and lived as My 24/7 slave, then I would actually expect you to behave like any other couple when you are with Me in the vanilla world. I certainly would not expect you to kneel at My feet while you eat, unless I am your meal! I will have the final say on what W/we do as a couple in what you can or can not do! your purpose is to understand what I want you to be and be able to figure out for yourself what that is.
I will expect you to become very observant and pay attention to the subtle signs that I give you. When I smile, you will know and understand that I am pleased with your servitude. When I give you a stern look, you had best put your best foot forward to ensure that you do not repeat the same mistake again or you will be punished. And to Me punishment is just that…Punishment, so trust Me, it is not something that you will want to endure again since a punishment will not be an enjoyable experience!
At times, you may need to try and figure out what it is that I want instead of just waiting around for something to happen; your procrastination may cause you due heartache because you did not take the time to see what it was that I needed! I will not waste My time dictating every action to you. If I have to do this, then you are not serving Me and are causing Me more grief then assistance. In essence this would mean that I am serving you instead of you serving Me and trust Me, and I don’t have a submissive bone in My body…!!!